Key Points
- It is important to prepare your loved one and future caregivers for the upcoming changes to the care plan. This involves speaking to your loved one about these new care arrangements and helping them adjust to it.
- You should help to build the relationship between your loved one and their new caregiver.
It is important to prepare your loved one for the eventual change in care arrangements. This includes helping your loved one understand the future changes to their routine, the environment, and the caregiving roles of the people around them.
In the process, you may have to address difficult topics like mortality with your loved one. While doing so, you should use simple but specific language, anticipate their concerns and speak in a reassuring manner7. It may be helpful to work with social workers to facilitate these conversations.
Apart from discussing future care arrangements with your loved one, it is also important to prepare the newly designated caregivers and family members for the upcoming changes. Purposeful actions, such as building rapport and familiarity between your loved one and the new caregiver will help smoothen this transition. You can do the following:
- Put together a personal profile of your loved one to help the new caregiver understand your experience with and knowledge of your loved one
- Create a checklist of what he/she can do
- Document your loved one’s needs and desires i.e. what’s important to and for him
- How can the successor caregiver help for now
As you hand over these caregiving responsibilities, you may need to give yourself time to get used to these changes, although it may be difficult at first.
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